The Road to Forgiveness: A Journey Paved with Grace

The Road to Forgiveness: A Journey Paved with Grace

Within the fabric of our lives, forgiveness intertwines a delicate thread, binding wounds and healing scars. The road to forgiveness is not an easy one; it is fraught with pain, resentment, and sometimes, an overwhelming sense of injustice. Yet, as you traverse this challenging path, you'll find that forgiveness is not just a destination but a transformative journey, guided by the profound force of grace. Here are some ways to approach it:

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Unleash Your Creativity this Spring: A Guide to Manifesting Something New in Your Life

Unleash Your Creativity this Spring: A Guide to Manifesting Something New in Your Life

Springtime is often associated with rejuvenation, growth, and the emergence of new possibilities. As nature begins to bloom, so too does our desire for change and exploration. If you've found yourself yearning for something meaningful, different, or transformative in your life, then you're in the right place at the right time. Welcome to the release of "You Are Creative" – a guide designed to ignite your inventive spirit and empower you to embark on a journey of self-discovery and creation.

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What is liberation psychology and what is liberation-based therapy?

What is liberation psychology and what is liberation-based therapy?

Originating from the works of psychologists like Ignacio Martín-Baró and Paulo Freire, liberation psychology

emerged as a response to oppressive political regimes and social injustices occurring in Latin American during

the 1970s. It was a time when many Latin American countries were ruled by authoritarian regimes, and people

faced persecution and marginalization for expressing dissenting views or advocating for social change. Against

this backdrop, psychologists recognized the urgent need to address not just individual mental health issues

but also the broader social and political factors contributing to widespread suffering and oppression. This

practice offers a unique perspective on healing—one that prioritizes empowerment, cultural relevance, and

the interconnectedness of personal and societal well-being.

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Mutual Aid: A Call to Support the LBT Mental Health Fund - Support Us Store

Mutual Aid: A Call to Support the LBT Mental Health Fund - Support Us Store

I started the mutual aid fund during the pandemic because people found themselves in the midst of the crisis without access to mental health services. As we all remember, that time was also fraught with grief in relation to the many, many deaths of loved ones in our communities, job loss, fear and uncertainty of what the future might hold; fear of getting sick; getting sick with little resources. Then add the death of George Floyd, and the extremely divided political situation going into the presidential election - many people were on the brink. LBT reached out to a few generous individual donors who were able to support the fund - and we were able to provide support to people who were in deep need.

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Walk in Faith

Walk in Faith

Isn't it intriguing how our perception changes with distance? From high above, the world seems vast and boundless, yet intimately connected. It's akin to how we sometimes view our faith journey. When your faith or higher power feels distant, it's easy to succumb to feelings of loneliness and abandonment. You may question its presence, wondering if it's truly there amidst the chaos of your life.

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On Starting Over…

On Starting Over…

Life is a wild ride, filled with unexpected detours and crossroads that prompt us to contemplate the daunting prospect of starting over. Whether spurred by personal decisions, external circumstances, or a blend of both, mastering the art of starting over is a vital skill. New beginnings can offer a transformation power, or even a sexy resilience required to navigate change. The opportunities that emerge when we boldly step into the unknown can take us to places we could have never dreamed.

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Transpersonal Psychotherapy? Holistic Approaches? Reiki? I'm confused!

Transpersonal Psychotherapy? Holistic Approaches? Reiki? I'm confused!

I often get asked about other various approaches to wellness and healing modalities that are beyond “talk therapy”. There is so much out there that people get confused about what they should try or what might be right for them. They ask, what’s “real”? What's “fake”? There is so much out there. I cannot write an exhaustive blog post of everything that is out there but I will share what a few clients have asked me about in the past couple of months.

Transpersonal psychotherapy is a holistic approach to psychotherapy that goes beyond traditional psychological concepts and explores the spiritual, transcendent, and mystical aspects of human experience. It acknowledges that individuals have a deeper or higher self and seeks to help people connect with this aspect of themselves to achieve personal growth and transformation.

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Why I Can’t See You and Your Partner for Individual Therapy

Why I Can’t See You and Your Partner for Individual Therapy

It's not uncommon for individuals to seek help for issues that affect their relationships. Relationship problems can indeed take a toll on one's mental well-being, and seeking therapy is a commendable step toward addressing these concerns. However, there is a crucial distinction between individual therapy and couples therapy, and it's important to understand why therapists often cannot see both partners individually when relationship issues arise. This recently came up for me, so I thought it would be helpful to share the reasons behind this practice and why it is essential for the effectiveness of therapy.

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Overcoming Trauma in New Jersey City: A New Jersey Therapist’s Guide to Healing

Overcoming Trauma in New Jersey City: A New Jersey Therapist’s Guide to Healing

Living in this fast-paced world, especially as a New Jersey therapist, I can tell you that we're often tossed about by the waves of life, and sometimes, they leave a lasting impact, an imprint - trauma. But let me tell you, it's okay. It's okay to have been hurt, and it's okay to seek help. You, my friend, are resilient and you've made it this far. That's no small achievement. It's a testament to your strength. And together, we can find new ways to navigate these choppy waters.

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